Some people might make you think that they have a perfect relationship, but the truth is that love can never be perfect. Even I you find the person that you are meant to be with, and you have a great romance, there will be times that love is hard.
When love is hard and you have been through heartbreak, you might want to give up on love, but you just need to learn how you attract the people that you do and why. How do you know what love is and if you are really in love? Do you have to love everything about someone to have true love? As you read on, understand what love really is.
Understand Love
When you meet someone and you are swooned by them, chances are that you will feel like this is the best thing that could ever happen to you. It can be a time where things seem to go slow and a time where you love every day that you wake up. But the question is, are you really in love with this person or are you just attracted to how they look?
How can you tell if love is going to last or if it is something that is just going to last for a moment. If you feel that you can’t imagine your love without them, figure out what you actually love about them.
Living Without Them
Do you wonder if you are going to love your partner for the rest of your life? You might wonder if you should plan a future with this person or if you will be over them soon. If someone loves you for their whole life, you will have a real love, and this is lucky.
Accepting Things
Even if you don’t love everything about someone, you can still love them. You should want there to be good changes in your life but if you love someone then even if it takes time, you will still love them. You will see that everyone has bad habits and baggage and if you really love that person, these things won’t hold you back.
Sharing Life Together
People have pain sometimes in their lives. Sometimes things are messy, and things cost money and time and then they end. You might have met someone that has these qualities of being messy, wasting money and time and other bad habits. If you find that you still love them then you have probably met your true love.
Loving Them
Love can be painful sometimes but if you find the right person then it won’t be hard. It can be hard or hurtful when you aren’t together but as long as you work hard to keep the relationship together then you won’t have to be in pain and heartbreak of a lost love.
Love can make people lonely when the love goes away. Love from anyone including friends, family or partners can give you strength to move on in your life and it can give you good things to look forward to. Love can be a great feeling and if you are in a good relationship and life seems good then you will love to love this person.
Forms of Love
There are different kinds of love. Some people think that love is just a sexual thing, but this isn’t true. There is love from a mother and father to their children and each other, love for siblings, love for parents, love for friends and family members and all kinds of love. Even if you are single, it doesn’t mean that you won’t have love in this world.
Love When Life is Hard
Things can get hard in love and when you are working on your relationship, you might wonder if you can really stay with that persons for the rest of your life. This can be a couple that is struggling to find time to spend together or a couple that struggles in finances or in communication. If you are a couple that struggles to spend time together, it is important to find small things that you can do together even if it is just a little bit of time.
Hard times can cause there to be a breakup. If you can stop and see what the problems are if you are really suffering in your relationship or if you are just stressed, then you can figure out what you need to do to help make the relationship better. There can be things that put a wedge between couples and when this happens, it has to be worked out quickly to keep the relationship from falling apart.
Love and Family
There are some people that struggle with being with someone because their families don’t accept that person. You might love the person that you are with but sometimes families won’t take into consideration how you feel about that person, just that they don’t like them. They might even dislike them for unfair reasons.
There will be times when your family doesn’t support you and when you have to make a choice if you are going to pick love or pick your family over your partner.
Sometimes you will be in situations where the family will end up accepting the person or they might not ever accept them and that is up to how you are going to deal with it as to what happens. You might be put in a situation where you have to make a decision on what you choose. You can choose love, or you can choose your family.
Some families are toxic, and they don’t have your best interests in heart. Some are manipulative and will only want you for themselves. If you are in a good family and they have a problem with your partner, see if your partner is the problem.
Healing with Love
Some people believe that they have to have a partner in order to heal in their life or their heart. There is no harm in being with someone that you care about but you need to make sure that you are doing love for yourself. Don’t date someone right away after you have gone through a hard breakup. It is important that you heal in your heart before you ever move forward in a new relationship.
Relationships that have good communication and respect can be strong. When there are breakups, this can cause painful emotions and when you get with someone else it can be harder to build trust. As long as there is good communication and respect though, you can get to know them, and you can build a good relationship together.
Some people seem to be lucky in love and they are able to find people that will commit to them, and they end up in good relationships. Other people struggle and are disappointed in love.
Dysfunctional Families
If you are someone that grew up in a dysfunctional family, you might have a hard time with relationships. You might have a hard time finding love and being in healthy relationships. Many women have been abused by their partners or there are also many that have been victims of child abuse. People that have been abused have a hard time trusting others and they look at their hurt and try to find people that won’t hurt them again.
Not everyone is able to find a counselor that will help them to heal from abuse, but everyone can find the guidance from someone. There are different churches and places that put out self-help books that can be available for those that need them. These kinds of readings can help to bring healing to people.
You might even decide that you want to see a counselor and find someone that is going to be compassionate to you in your trauma and your pain. You might be broken but you can heal, and you can be confident to open yourself up to people that will not hurt you and that can love you like you deserve.
Loving a Woman
Everyone wants to be loved and everyone wants to be in relationships where they feel love and accepted. They want to live lives that help them to find the truth of who they are and where they are made a priority to others. People want to be respected and honored and they want to be with people that will apologize when they are wrong and where the relationships are meaningful.
People want others in their lives that will help them and will help them to be the best that they can be. They want people to share good times with and to find those that have the same interests. People want others to be able to go out with and to enjoy times with. They want to spend time with others.
Men and women want to be loved the same and if you are with someone, ask them how you can love them more and give them what they need to have a good life.
Loving for Life
Not everyone will stay with the same person forever and sometimes people die. This means that you won’t just have one love in your life. People will have more than one person that they love and if you are someone that is widowed then you might think that you will never find true love again, but you can.
Your spouse would want you to find someone else and to be happy. You don’t have to start dating again right away but you should not sit around unhappy, and you should put yourself out there in love.
Some second marriages are better than first marriages, especially ones that end in divorce. The older you get, the lower the chances are of not going through a divorce, but this can lead to a spouse that is older and that dies. Not everyone wants to fall in love again after their spouse has died and if you choose to stay single, that is up to you. You don’t have to decide that right away.
Keeping the Love Happy
There are some people that would do anything that they could to make their partner happy. If you find that someone that you love is taking advantage of you though, you might need to learn to say no to them and not to give them everything that they want.
If you want to have someone love you, make sure that you aren’t being manipulated and that you aren’t giving them more than they are offering to you in return. You should give and be given to.
If you have a loved one that is using you for money or for other things, you need to detach from this person. If they begin to take advantage of you, use you or demand things from you, chances are that they don’t love you and you don’t need them in your life. Giving and getting goes hand in hand and if someone is taking more than they are giving, this isn’t love.
What Stops Love?
There are things that can keep you from being in a happy relationship. Love is there even if you are with someone that you can’t be with. This can be someone that is long-distance, or it can be a soulmate that hasn’t come to you yet. These are barriers that stop you from being closer in your relationship.
Also, you might have barriers that you created in your own life. This can happen when you have been rejected and when you have been mistreated. You might be someone that won’t share things about your life or someone that sets expectations for others that are impossible to reach.
If you are afraid of being rejected, you will make it hard for others to love you. Instead, learn to recognize the red flags in relationships and then you can know if someone isn’t interested in you, and you will know to stay away from them.
It can be selfish of you not to consider the feelings of others. If you are with people and you want to be in a healthy relationship, you need to make sure that you are open and you are communicating. The goal in your relationship should be to live happily and not to be selfish or uncaring.
Don’t settle for things that don’t make you happy but don’t set expectations that are so high that you can never see them work out for you. Don’t be someone that sees that no one is good enough for them. Find a relationship that is loving and secure. Don’t always try to change someone and don’t worry so much about being hurt or rejected that you push people away. If you are negative, it will be hard to find someone that wants to be with you.
All of these things are bad relationship habits and if you want to find love, you will need to know that love isn’t your enemy. You need to realize that you can ruin your relationships and miss out on your dreams.
Getting Love
You can learn to be mindful of finding love and if you are open to it then you will learn to receive it. It is that easy to find love. Once you learn to respect yourself and to be open to love, you will see that love is what you need. You don’t have to be rich or famous to find love, but you just need to be positive and be yourself.
You need to learn to get rid of bad habits and be mindful of these things. Change yourself for the better and find people that like you for who you are.
Think of times that you have shared with people that you love and how much fun you had with them. You can meet people like this, and you can see that if you open up your heart and you are kind and loving, you can get the same in return.
If you have a hard time opening your heart, find someone that needs your love and be there for them. This can be a friend, family member or a lover. Giving love can allow you to open up to love and to be able to receive it.
Getting Love Advice
You can get your own love advice by listening to your heart or you can learn to trust your inner being and your intuition to guide you towards someone that can guide you towards love. Respect yourself and if you need to get advice, always be truthful with who you are talking to and share your thoughts and feelings with them. This can help you to get the advice you need.
Don’t ever hesitate to reach out to someone that can give you love advice and always be honest and open. You can always talk to a psychic that can guide you to love.
